There are threee ways you can send a message on HER:

1. To a Match
2. To a person who has engaged with your post in the Community feed or on an event 
3. Directly from a profile

You can view who has liked you in the Notifications section of the app and you can Like them back by either viewing their profile and selecting the Like button, or hitting the Like button directly from your notifications. This will create a Match and you can message the person from your Inbox. 

You can also click the arrow at the bottom of a profile to expand it and scroll to the bottom to see a 'Message' button that allows you to start a conversation with a user. 

If you ever receive a message from a user that makes you feel unsafe or that you believe is spam we strongly urge you to report them and/or block them if you do not wish to see or be seen by them.