Expiring Matches & Chat Archive November 17, 2025 21:10 Updated Your HER inbox just got even better! With streamlined updates designed to keep things flowing, your chats are about to feel more aligned than ever before.Expiring MatchesMatches without any messages from either person will expire after 3 days, keeping your inbox focused on people who are genuinely interested in connecting with you. Note that expired Matches cannot be viewed or restored. This helps create a space where conversations feel intentional and engaging. Don’t hesitate to make the first move- it only takes one message to inspire something meaningful!Chat ArchiveIf the conversation with your match hasn’t been flowing, and neither of you has sent a message in 14 days, it’ll be removed from your inbox so that you can keep your focus on your active chats. Don’t worry! Inactive conversations are now moved to the Archive. This means you can easily revisit past messages- without cluttering your inbox. Archived chats can be found at the bottom of your inbox. If someone from your archived chats messages you, or if you decide to reignite the conversation, the chat will seamlessly move back into your inbox, so you don’t have to worry about missing a connection with that special someone.